Making Love Happen I read a part in SimplyHer which was quite interesting and decides to blog it up.

Lack of communication is a major issue with lots of couples who have been together for awhile.

Unwillingness to share personal feelings with each other.

fearing of being judges or rejected

Bad listening skills.

They dont take time to let each other focus on their own feelings without trying to read each other minds. Instead, they're impatient listeners, who constantly interrupt each other and tend to be judgemental with unwavering, single-minded opinions

Refusal to discuss and resolve problems together.

Thay often find it hard to reach a fair compromise

Being negative and critical of each other.

Such an attitude closes the door to positive communciation and can lead to a loss communication altogether.

Inability to understand each other's feeling and needs.

Some couples may need more time than others to adjust to each other's habits and differences.

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